I Want To Age Like The Elves. Getting Older, Getting Wiser, But NOT Getting Uglier

"I Want To Age Like The Elves. Getting Older, Getting Wiser, But NOT Getting Uglier.
Impossible?
I Don't Think So.
And That' Why, I Will Be Like The Elves." - David Julio Wang

Record of Lodos War

People don't care about how old you are.
If you're hot, you're hot,
whether you're 16 or 160 years old.

If your face is unlined and your flesh plump and full,
who cares if you seen the seasons change 40, 50, 60, 100 times.
You're hot!
That's all that matters.

Am I shallow?
Come on...
Everyone wants this.

Ask a person their age, they will give it to you reluctantly, maybe lie about it outright.
Why?
They want to look younger.
They feel sad that they have let life pass them by, and they want to hold onto the years which pass them by like whispers on the breeze.

...
Step 1 is avoiding the sun or wearing sun screen.
After 20 minutes a day of sun exposure, it's all skin damage, and ugly wrinkles, age spots, and enlarged pores.
Yuck.
The sun is the source of all life, and the source of all wrinkles.

I think the Dermal Regenerator is in order about now.

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People who are young at heart, deserve to look young outside their heart too.
Why not?
The sun is responsible for nearly all the skin damage.
Just treat the sun with caution and beautiful skin is yours.

Don't forget Wrap Around Sunglasses to avoid those ugly "crow's feet" around the eyes.

What A Difference It Makes When You Are Welcomed And Invited...

"What A Difference It Makes When You Are Welcomed And Invited To A Thing,
Rather Than Having To Force Your Way In."

Humanity is wasting so much time,
so much potential,
with this ridiculous Capitalist competition,
the perverse race to outdo and outcompete others,
because of the belief that the way to get the best out of humanity is through aggressive competition.

...how little the Captains of Industry understand the true nature of the human heart...
...like Voldemort, they cannot see past their own personal pains and hurts...

Human beings become limitless when they are welcomed into the fold,
when they know that their fellow human beings love them and respect them just for being themselves.
With such faith, such warmth,
a human being's doors are all thrown open,
and their energy becomes boundless as imagination.

If We Keep Punishing The Truth, We Will Continue To Live In A World Of Lies

"If We Keep Punishing The Truth, We Will Continue To Live In A World Of Lies."

It's about faith in human beings as noble creatures.
Not that humans are capable of good or evil,
but that when humans do things which are "evil",
it is because they are hurting in some way and they are expressing that pain,
not because they are evil.

Even if the truth hurts,
it is the truth,
maybe distorted,
maybe perverted,
maybe a mockery of its once beautiful self,
but it is the truth all the same,
and it is the key to understanding another human being.

Back When I Was Younger, It Seemed To Me That Lying Was A Necessary Evil, Because It Spared You From Punishment

"Back When I Was Younger, It Seemed To Me That Lying Was A Necessary Evil,
Because It Spared You From Punishment."

When you did something that larger, stronger adults disapproved of, the consequence was you were punished.
Even if you had good reasons for doing what you did, the consequence was punishment.
An unacceptable act had 2 possibilities : lie or be punished.
Is it any wonder so many of us become liars from a very young age.

Human beings have a very powerful survival instinct.
Punishment is something that our whole being cries out against.
If we are punished for doing something that felt important to us,
what message are we sent?
It is that irregardless of what's important to us, if we do something that larger, stronger people consider unacceptable, we will be punished.
And we wonder why people walk around with hunted looks in their eyes.
When we look at each other we are always wondering :
"Is this person going to hurt me?..."
What a horrible inheritance.

Solution

When I have kids I will tell them I always want the truth.
Even if it's to say, "Dad. I think you're getting fat, bald, and ugly."
I'm an adult.
Kids need mature human beings to guide them,
ones who understand that we speak the truth, never out of maliciousness,
but because there is something powerful inside we need to express.

It's about what you believe is human nature.
I believe human beings are naturally noble, good creatures and that when we say hurtful things,
it is because we are in pain ourselves.

When we do something which is unwanted,
it is because there is something important inside that is trying to be expressed.

Conclusion

If we keep punishing the truth, we will continue to live in a world of lies.

The Biggest Problem We Have It That Everyone Desperately Needs To Be Loved, But Everyone Is Deathly Afraid To Ask For It

"The Biggest Problem We Have Is That Everyone Desperately Needs To Be Loved,
But Everyone Is Deathly Afraid To Ask For It."

"The Biggest Problem We Have Is That Everyone Desperately Feels Needs To Be Loved, To Feel Warm, To Feel Cared For, To Feel Wanted, Simply Put To Feel Loved, To Be Held, To Be Smiled At,
But Everyone Is Deathly Afraid To Ask For It, To Show That They Need It So Badly.
Because They Are Afraid Of Being Hurt,
They Are Afraid Of Being Rejected,
Of Suffering A Mortal Wound Of The Heart And Soul,
And Then Being Left To Rot And Die Unrecognizerd and Unmourned,
Because Humanity Is On Its Long, Implacable March To The Future, To Progress, To Glory,
And Does Not Care If Some Stragglers Fall By The Wayside."

A True Leader Is A Person Who Makes The People They Lead Stronger

"A True Leader Is Not A Person Who Is Good At Giving Orders,
But A Person Who Makes The People They Lead Stronger." - David Julio Wang

Naruto will not be the greatest Hokage the Hidden Leaf Village has ever seen because he will be the village's most exceptional ninja, but, rather because he is a person who helps to show others, how much stronger they are than they think they are.

Everyone Wants To Be Accepted, Everyone Wants To Be Understood. That's, Ultimately, What Everyone Really Wants

"Everyone Wants To Be Accepted, Everyone Wants To Be Understood.
That's, Ultimately, What Everyone Really Wants." - David Julio Wang

From the Serial Killer to the 4th Grader.
From the Suicide Bomber to the Loving Wife and Homemaker.
From the Brutal Dictator to the Gentle Grandfather.
Everyone Wants To Be Accepted.
Everyone Wants To Be Understood.

It's something to keep in mind when you sit back in judgment of someone.

Human Beings Are Creatures Of EMOTION First, And LOGIC Second

"Human Beings Are Creatures Of EMOTION First,
And LOGIC Second."

Car Salesman understand that people make their decision about buying a car based on how they FEEL.
If they feel a "connection" to the car, a "bond", if they can "see themselves in the car", then the salesman likely has a sale on his hands.

Advertisers know this same truth.
People make their decision to buy something primarily on how they "Feel About It".
So Advertisers try to "attach their products to things which elicit positive human feelings, like beautiful women and gorgeous landscapes".

"Human Beings Make Decisions Based Primarily On FEELINGS,
And Secondarily On LOGIC."

This is not something to be ashamed of,
it is something to be simply understood and accepted about human beings.