Changing From A "Prove It" Society To A "We Approve Of You" Society

"I Want Our Society To Change From One Which Looks Down On People Saying,
'Alright. Show Me What You Can Do.'
To One Which Says,
'We'll Show You How Good You Are, And How Much Better You Can Become.' "

"I Want Our Society To Change From One Which Pushes People Into Life Saying,
'Prove Yourself! Prove You're Worthwhile!'
To One Which Tells People,
'You Are Already Worthwhile, And We're Going To Prove To You How Much Greater You Can Become.' "

A small change in perspective.
A small change in philosophy.
A small change that can change the world.

I Do Not Want To Accept Help From Others Unless I Know That They Give It Willingly And I Feel They Actually Care

"I Do Not Want To Accept Help From Others Unless I Know That They Give It Willingly,
And I Feel They Actually Care."

Otherwise, it feels like I am being pitied.
And I hate to be pitied.